Ever wondered what normal aspects of your life are unusual to others? Read up to find out 5 culture shocks that non-Malaysians have when visiting Malaysia for the first time.
1. Shoes are taken off in houses
Whilst taking off your shoes before entering a house is not unique to Malaysia, this is not practiced everywhere in the world. So if you have a non-Malaysian friend coming to your house for the first time, let them know to avoid being put in a muddy situation.
2. Crossing streets the Malaysian style
In many countries including Malaysia, you may only cross the street if the traffic light has turned green for pedestrians. Crossing the street without this, even if it’s empty, is called jaywalking, which is illegal. Yet in Malaysia, this law seems to be ignored by almost everyone, which may be shocking to someone from outside the country. If that isn’t enough to give someone culture shock, then the way we stick out our hands to stop traffic will surely do the job.
3. Drinking teh, kopi or milo with your meal
In other countries, tea and coffee are not consumed with meals, but are instead mostly had in the mornings or evenings, commonly with a pastry or light snack. It can even be difficult to find tea or coffee on a restaurant menu, unless the restaurant doubles as a café. Most beverages served with meals abroad are water, juices, soft drinks or cocktails. On top of that, Milo is commonly reserved as a drink for children and many adults do not drink it.
4. Calling everyone “boss”
The Malaysian dialect is an interesting blend created by different cultures and people. A first time visitor will likely be confused by the use of words like “lah”, “boleh” and more, especially when mixed in with English. But most confusing is the fact that strangers are called “boss.” The word boss tends to be reserved for your work superiors in other countries, so calling a stranger boss might cause some confusion for a visitor.
5. Social gatherings revolve around food
One thing about Malaysia, is we don’t eat to live, but we live to eat. From our lepak at mamak to queueing for hours to dine in at a newly opened restaurant, it is impossible to see a food establishment completely empty, no matter what time of the day it is! This would be a shock to a first time visitor to Malaysia – but once they try our delicious cuisine, we’re sure they would instantly understand!
Did you know these things are uncommon outside of Malaysia? Comment below which one surprised you the most, or share a culture shock you experienced in another country!