Valentine’s Day happened just yesterday and since we’re still in the spirit of love, we’ve got something very special for you today!
In the spirit of cupid’s bow, the team from Sevenpie got out of our way and approached a few couples who are obviously in love and would like to share a thing or two about their relationship to YOU, our dear readers. These couples you see you social media, having their relationship out in the open can be a struggle, let’s see what they’ve got to say about the love they share.
Today, we’ve approached Roen and Carey. You’ve probably spotted them online with a large number of following, sharing their love through social media. Continue reading as both Roen and Carey shares everything from the moment they met to how they resolve an argument.
1. What was your first impression when you met your partner?
Roen: Well, considering I met my wife in a bikini, the first impression was good lol! It was the Miss Malaysia 2013 bikini round, and it was at my club The Pool. We met but totally didn’t hit it off and took about 6 months to actually start dating.
Carey: he was very confident, charming and playful.
2. What is your favourite trait of each other?
Roen: There are many, but if I’m to choose one it would be how understanding she is.
Carey: he is a doer. He gets things done and shows that he cares and makes an effort.
3. How do you cope with your relationship being under the spotlight on social media?
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Roen: we’ve sorta embraced it over the years. We spread positivity with a clear and honest message to the best of our ability. This allows the social media journey to be easier.
Carey: we keep a lot of things private and remind ourselves that we are accountable to our family rather than social media followers. It helps us stay grounded, work on things that matter and celebrate what we have!
4. What shared memory do you love more than all others?
Roen: Again, there are so many but i’d say the travel we’ve done together over the years which has taught us a lot. Glad we did it before marriage and kids.
Carey: memories of our travels have always been the best. We travel very well together! Other than that, I guess it will have to be the proposal in iceland, it was a combination of romance, drama and comedy 😀
5. How do the both of you handle an argument?
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Roen: we try not to argue a lot, but I guess it gets tough being cooped up in MCO. We are very objective with arguments after all these years, so we do sit down and talk about things once the anger/ emotions subside.
Carey: we are not perfect and we don’t have the perfect recipe for conflict resolution but we don’t often have a lot of arguments. We have disagreements which don’t often turn into arguments. But we have learnt to take a breather when things get heated and approach the subject with the mindset that we are not in it to win an argument, but to win together.
6. What makes a relationship healthy?
Roen: non stop clear communication
Carey: foster trust, respect and appreciate the little things.
7. What are some activities that both of you do as a couple?
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Roen: exercise, travel, attending events, work lol.
Carey: we workout together, spend a lot of time with kids together! (We do almost everything together 😉
8. What has stayed the same in this relationship since the beginning?
Roen: the same goals
Carey: he cooks! 😜
9. First dates are usually crucial. So, how was your first date?
Roen: it wasn’t fancy just a japanese meals and cocktails after
Carey: it was pretty cheeky but we had a lot to talk about and it was pretty casual.
10. Finally, What are your valentine’s Day plans during quarantine?
Roen: it’ll be the simplest of Vdays to date under current circumstances. We’ll have a nice meal at home after the kids go to sleep lol.
Carey: some time alone with each other (it’s also our 4th wedding anniversary) but with MCO I think we are pretty realistic with our expectation, and more reason to celebrate each other daily now that we can’t have ONE special day to call each other Valentine 😜
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