Love is an important component in everyone’s life. Nobody wants to be alone in this wonderful and amazing world. To be able to love someone wholeheartedly is the best feeling in the world, but first how do you actually initiate your first conversation with someone that you really really like?
It’s not hard if you follow these 7 simple tips on how do you actually pick up a girl, especially Malaysian girls. We are not saying that this would guaranteed you in winning the heart of the girl of your dreams, but it would increase your chance if you are inexperience with girls. You can thank me later 😀
1. Be Confident
Girls admire guys which are confident in themselves. As solid as a rock, nothing could destroy your confident despite what life throws at you. So stand firm and be confident when you initiate your conversation with the girl of your dreams. Show her that nothing can stop you from talking to her, even though you are scared to death inside.
2. Talk With Passion
After you managed to strike a conversation with her, tell her your passion. Let her watch your eyes lit up talking about your dreams, your goals or your interest. The context doesn’t matter. You just want to be as passionate as possible about your life and you want to share this with her. Let her feel your energy from the inside.
3. Pay Attention To Her
One of the rudest way of talking to a girl is not paying attention to her. You might be shivering inside from the anxiety but you must be able to clear your mind and only pay attention to her. Understand the words coming out from her mouth and make them stay in your head. Girls will tend to ask your opinion on the topics that she was talking just now and you must be able to answer confidently to prove that you were paying attention to her all along.
4. Be A Gentleman
Chivalry is not dead. It doesn’t hurt to be a gentleman by holding doors open or making her to walk the inside of a road. All of these actually add points to your overall personality and charm. However don’t overdo it as it would be deemed as too fake, just be yourself and be kind to your lady.
5. Create Attraction
To create attraction, one must understand how to add value to his overall appearance. Girls prefer guys who are well dressed for different occasions. A well groomed guy will definitely be more attractive than a guy that doesn’t take good care of his appearance. Research shows girls are much more attracted to guys who wear white colour shirts. Maybe this can work to your advantage too 🙂
6. Connect To Her
Girls are emotion being. They are sentimental and filled with various emotions as compared to guys. Find out her interest, what she like, her personality and do some homework. Find a common point which you two can related to. Talk about similar passions or interests which drive both hearts beating fast.
7. Respect Her
Last and not least, every girl deserves respect. Be kind to her and give her a good time with your presence either with your conversation, magic tricks or your piano performance. Show her you truly care about her and you really want to have a wonderful relationship with her. However if she doesn’t think the same way, smile and move on because in the end you respect her decision and she is probably not the right one for you.